What are the things to note in the bridal chamber on the wedding night and on what days of the wedding?

It is recommended to have sex on the wedding night when both parties are physically and mentally relaxed. During the first sexual intercourse, attention should be paid to emotional regulation, cleanliness, gentle movements, contraceptive measures and communication. Most couples have sex on the wedding day or the next day, and the specific time should be determined according to physical condition and wishes.

1. Emotional regulation:

The first sexual contact may be accompanied by nervousness. It is recommended to relieve anxiety through foreplay, caressing and verbal communication. Men need to avoid premature ejaculation caused by excessive excitement. Women may experience vaginismus and can relax by taking deep breaths. If you experience severe discomfort, you can stop trying, and there is no need to force sexual intercourse that night.

2. Cleanliness and hygiene:

External genitalia need to be washed with warm water before and after sexual intercourse. Women should clean from front to back to avoid infection. It is recommended to prepare disinfectant wipes for backup and keep bed sheets and bedding clean. Men with excessive foreskin should turn it over and clean it in advance, and women should avoid sexual intercourse during menstruation to avoid the risk of infection.

3. Move gently:

Hymen rupture may be accompanied by mild pain and bleeding, and it is recommended to use lubricant to reduce friction. Men should insert slowly and gradually, and should not force a breakthrough when encountering resistance. You can try the woman's dominant position such as woman on top to control the depth and rhythm of entry.

4. Contraceptive measures:

Those who do not plan to have children need to prepare condoms in advance. Correct use can achieve 98% contraceptive effect. Short-acting contraceptive pills need to be taken one month in advance, and emergency contraceptive pills are only used as a remedial measure. The contraceptive method has a high failure rate during the safe period and is not recommended during the newlywed period.

5. Communication:

During sexual intercourse, you should always ask your partner how they feel and provide feedback on comfort through language or body movements. You can share your experiences and feelings afterwards to avoid misunderstandings caused by silence. If you have persistent pain or the amount of bleeding is greater than menstruation, you should seek medical examination in time.

After having sex during the wedding period, it is recommended to clean the vulva every day and avoid bathing and swimming to prevent infection. The diet can be properly supplemented with nuts and deep-sea fish rich in vitamin E to promote mucosal repair. Avoid strenuous exercise and long-distance travel within two weeks, and ensure adequate sleep to help physical recovery. If you experience persistent discomfort or difficulty in sexual intercourse, you can consult a gynecologist/andrologist for professional guidance. Most situations can be gradually improved with correct guidance. It is recommended to prepare newlywed guide books to study together and establish a scientific understanding of sexual health.