Trying to Adjust to His Size (A Must-Read Guide for Newlyweds)

　　Many newlyweds encounter various difficulties when trying to have sex for the first time due to lack of experience and correct knowledge. female You may feel pain and discomfort due to not adapting, which may bring psychological pressure to both parties. Therefore, a scientific and practical adaptation guide is crucial for newlyweds. Next, we will introduce relevant adaptation methods and precautions in detail.

Learn about body structure and sex

　　Learn physiological knowledge: couples can read some professional sex books together healthy Books, such as "Introduction to Sexology", etc., to understand the structure and function of male and female reproductive organs. Peking Union Medical College Hospital Obstetrics and gynecology experts said that by learning physiological knowledge, they can eliminate fears and misunderstandings about sexual life and prepare themselves psychologically to adapt to each other's bodies.

　　Consult a doctor: You can go to a regular hospital, such as Peking University People's Hospital, to consult an obstetrician-gynecologist or andrologist. Doctors will give professional advice and guidance based on the specific circumstances of the couple to help them better understand the relevant knowledge about sexual life.

Be prepared for foreplay

　　Emotional communication: Before sex, both husband and wife should have full emotional communication, and enhance each other's feelings and create a romantic atmosphere through hugging, kissing, touching, etc. This kind of emotional communication can make women more relaxed and prepare them psychologically for subsequent sexual life.

　　Stimulate sensitive areas: male It can gently stimulate women's sensitive parts, such as ears, neck, chest, etc., so that women's bodies gradually enter a state of excitement. This helps women secrete more lubricant and reduce discomfort during sex.

Choose the right posture

　　Try different positions: Newlyweds can try a variety of sexual positions, such as the traditional man on top and woman on top, woman on top and man on top, etc. By experimenting, you will find a position that is comfortable and easy for both of you. Some sexual health experts suggest that for first-time or less comfortable couples, the woman-on-man position may give the woman more control over pace and depth.

　　Adjust posture and angle: During sex, if women feel uncomfortable, they can adjust their posture and angle in time. For example, change the inclination of the body, the degree of bending of the legs, etc. to find the state that suits you best.

Use lubricant

　　Choose quality products: There are many types of lubricants available in the market, such as water-based lubricants, silicone-based lubricants, etc. It is recommended to choose products from regular brands, whose quality and safety are more guaranteed. Generally speaking, water-based lubricants are relatively affordable, ranging from 20 to 50 yuan, and are suitable for most newlyweds.

　　Proper use of lubricant: Before sex, apply an appropriate amount of lubricant to the male genitals and around the female vaginal opening. Pay attention to apply it evenly and avoid using too much or too little to reduce the discomfort caused by friction.

Be patient and communicate

　　Give each other time: Adaptation is a step-by-step process. Both husband and wife should be patient and not rush for success. Men, in particular, must fully understand a woman’s feelings and give her enough time to adapt.

　　Communicate feelings in a timely manner: During sex, both husband and wife should communicate with each other in a timely manner. If a woman feels pain or discomfort, she should tell the man immediately, and the man should stop the action and work together to find a solution. This kind of good communication can avoid conflicts caused by misunderstandings and make sex life more harmonious.