Women use contraception to protect themselves

　　In request to do flow of people of unmarried female Among them, 57.1% suffered from reproductive tract infections； One-third of the first sexual intercourse occurred before the age of 19, 8.9% of which occurred during middle school, and the youngest age for the first sexual intercourse was only 13 years old. ； The maximum number of sexual friends is 16, but 9 extremely simple questions about sex healthy Only 1.2% of people answered the knowledge test questions correctly... This set of lamentable data comes from Peking University women and children A sexual and reproductive health survey conducted by health centers and national health organizations, with 10 survey objects in four cities: Beijing, Zhengzhou, Nanning and Shenzhen Hospital More than 2,000 unmarried women requested abortion.

　　In this era of extremely convenient access to information, if you accuse someone of being ignorant, you will definitely be ridiculed. But if you think about what these numbers represent and what they mean, I'm afraid no one can laugh.

　　An obstetrician and gynecologist said: "When a young woman gave birth in a small clinic, the placenta adhered to the Uterus She was pregnant and couldn't get out. Fortunately, the clinic was close to our hospital. When the mother was urgently transferred, she had already begun to bleed heavily. We had no choice but to remove the uterus, and the mother saved her life. However, she can no longer have children of her own. Basically, the main culprit of this high-risk delivery is too frequent and too irregular abortion surgeries. ”

　　another Gynecology The doctor said: "I once examined a 16-year-old high school girl. A girl who looks very fashionable, but suffers from mold and trichomonas at the same time Vaginitis、Cervicitis , and chronic pelvic inflammatory disease . I asked her about her sexual experience and normal hygiene habits, and this angelic-looking girl actually replied that she had had two miscarriages, had sex during menstruation, sometimes washed her vulva unintentionally, and had no contraceptive ability! What makes me feel sad is not only her figure, but also her nonchalant tone. ”

　　Due to the flaws in China's sex education and the influence of social customs, many women's sexual knowledge is specious. An educator loudly shouted: It would be a shame for a civilized society if teenagers were allowed to explore and test partners on their own, and learn distorted sexual knowledge from pornographic products! The survey shows that 21% of female college students’ sexual knowledge comes from friends around them. If friends’ knowledge is wrong, they may spread rumors and mislead.

　　During the interview at the hospital, within just a few minutes, the reporter saw multiple women coming for treatment in the gynecologist's clinic. They are all around 20 years old, and they can all understand test sheets such as pregnancy tests, and they can also understand menstruation and contraception in an orderly manner. It is obvious that their education level is not low, but they also share a common adversity - abortion.

　　In the abortion clinic records of "Li Yan", the doctor recorded that the patient "had nausea, vomiting, and lower abdominal pain, and the operation was stopped immediately" during the operation. The doctor immediately asked the patient to stay in the hospital for observation. However, at 4:45 p.m., “the patient refused to stay for observation and asked to go home. When the medical staff was not paying attention, he left the hospital alone on the pretext of going to the toilet.”……

　　Although the family members of the deceased still have doubts about the authenticity of this record, after all, Xiao Shui's young body is already cold, and no amount of tears and shouts can bring back that delicate and flowery life.

　　An obstetrician and gynecologist said: “A woman’s body is like a piece of land, and irregular and repeated abortions are like wanton and unlimited plowing and farming. After a while, the fertile land becomes barren. ”

　　Another obstetrician and gynecologist said: "During the operation, I sometimes hit those young girls who are indifferent. On the premise of not hurting them and successfully completing the operation, I will give them some lessons. Because you have experienced pain, you will learn lessons. ”

　　Yes, only after you have learned a lesson will you know how to protect yourself and prevent your body from suffering damage over and over again. Don't wait until the worst has happened before you beat your chest and regret it.

　　The miscarriage rate is 44.1%, and 54% of married women still do not take any contraceptive measures. Among women whose contraceptive failure resulted in abortion, 77% of working women did not take contraceptive measures because they felt lucky.

　　Some data you may not know:

　　In 2006, data released by Shanghai Dragon TV showed that among adolescents under the age of 19 in my country, 5% to 10% of boys and 3% to 8% of girls had had sexual experience. At the same time, a survey by the Beijing Women's Federation showed that 8% of the girls aged 13 to 19 surveyed had had sexual experience and 3% had been pregnant.

　　Pregnancy at a younger age has become a phenomenon that cannot be ignored. Another phenomenon that cannot be ignored is the increased rate of recurrent miscarriage in women.

　　In this regard, married professional women may not be more knowledgeable than unmarried girls. Statistics from Shanghai show that although the rate of recurrent miscarriage is 44.1%, 54% of married women do not take any contraceptive measures. Among women whose contraceptive failure resulted in abortion, 77% of working women did not take contraceptive measures because they were lucky.

　　Some questions about abortion:

　　1. Is painless abortion really painless? The so-called "painless abortion" is not completely painless, but the operation is performed under general anesthesia. Painless abortion essentially causes no different harm to the body than other abortion methods. As long as it is an abortion, including medical abortion or painless abortion, even if you use the most advanced methods and find the most trustworthy hospitals and doctors, it will cause damage to your body.

　　2. Is medical abortion really just equivalent to a severe menstruation? Although medical abortion is indeed simpler and more convenient and less painful than the operating table, it does no less harm to your body than artificial abortion. If medical abortion is not complete, the embryos in the uterus cannot be completely removed, and dilation and curettage surgery will eventually be necessary. In addition, it may cause intrauterine infection, damage the endometrium, cause fallopian tube occlusion, and ultimately cause infertility.

　　3. Will multiple abortions lead to lifelong infertility? During abortion, the endometrium is repeatedly scraped, causing the uterine wall to become thinner and the endometrium to become less and less. This not only causes bleeding, adhesions, infections of the reproductive tract and uterine cavity, uterine perforation, menstrual disorders, amenorrhea, abdominal pain and more than a dozen complications, but can also lead to pelvic inflammatory disease, endometriosis, and even infertility. And the more abortions there are, the greater the harm. If it is an underage girl, it is more likely to cause sequelae. What’s even more frightening is that repeated miscarriages will make it less likely for a woman to have children in the future, making it difficult to get pregnant, and even if she does become pregnant, she will easily abort.

　　4. Are first-born babies the best? Yes, babies born during the first pregnancy are of the highest quality.

　　Abortion memo:

　　1. Sexual intercourse should be avoided within one week before abortion.

　　2. After confirming pregnancy, be sure to go to the hospital for vaginal secretion examination to rule out inflammation; B-ultrasound to rule out ectopic pregnancy.

　　3. Maintain a stable mentality during abortion surgery.

　　4. The patient should be observed for two hours after the abortion operation.

　　5. Rest for two weeks after abortion, use antibiotics, and keep the vagina clean. It is not advisable to take a bath for two weeks after surgery. Absolutely no sex life for one month.

　　6. If vaginal bleeding exceeds 10 to 15 days after abortion, and the amount of bleeding exceeds menstrual blood, you should seek medical treatment in time.

　　7. Sexual life can be resumed one month after abortion. Pay attention to contraception.

　　8. It is best to wait one year before getting pregnant after abortion, and at least six months.

　　Of course, there are also many women who are deeply resistant to abortion and try their best to avoid it happening. However, during this process, physical health is still not within their consideration.

　　Some common sense about contraception

　　Sex is unavoidable for mature women, so how to prevent pregnancy?

　　1. Oral contraceptives

　　One of the most comfortable contraceptive methods, short-acting contraceptive pills are taken once a day or for 22 consecutive days starting from the end of menstruation. It can regulate menstruation and help with symptoms such as premenstrual abdominal pain and irritability. In order to solve the problem of missed doses of short-acting oral contraceptives, there is a very simple method for reference: make a calendar for the current month, cut and paste it on the body of the pill bottle, and make a corresponding mark after each pill is taken, so that the couple can remind each other to prevent forgetting.

　　2. Emergency contraceptive pills

　　Almost all emergency contraceptive pills work by inhibiting ovulation and endometrium. Therefore, taking them continuously and multiple times during the same menstrual cycle will increase the chance of menstrual disorders and increase the failure rate. Many young girls find it troublesome to take medication every day, so they simply don't do any "preparation" work in advance. It's not until they have sex that they rush out to buy emergency contraceptive pills and take them. This approach exaggerates the "miraculous effect" of emergency contraceptive pills. In other words, if emergency contraceptive pills are used occasionally, their effects are trustworthy. If you turn to it frequently, after a while, you will have to see an experienced Chinese medicine practitioner to regulate your menstruation.

　　3. Safe period contraception

　　It is most popular among men because they can enjoy the pleasure of barrier-free contact. But it's not safe enough for women. Changes in the living environment, a sudden increase in work pressure, or a reunion with a partner after a long separation, etc., can all lead to disturbances in the safety period.

　　4. Male condoms

　　For women, this is a contraceptive method that combines comfort and safety, but men often complain that it is "troublesome" and "unsatisfactory." The proportion of married couples using condoms for contraception is 31% in urban China and only 12% in rural areas. This proportion is 56% in Japan, 71% in Singapore, and even 43% in India.

　　Why do so many Chinese women abandon such a comfortable and cheap method? The answer is "He doesn't want to use it, I'm afraid he won't be happy." In fact, the contraceptive effect of disposable condoms is as high as 99.6%, and the "discomfort" is just a little "slight spicy" when the plastic product rubs against the vagina. I believe that men’s physical feelings are the same. Their discomfort is 100% psychological. Wives can find opportunities to talk to their husbands. This custom of focusing on male feelings should be changed. Contraception must focus on women, because it is they who bear the consequences of sexual intercourse unilaterally.

　　Facts have proven that as long as you persist, the number of men over 35 who welcome condoms is twice as many as those who are 27. As the age of marriage increases, they increasingly discover the benefits of condoms, such as prolonging the ejaculation time and making both parties more satisfied; and for example, they do not have to rush to wash the sheets afterwards.

　　5.Contraceptive ligation

　　If both parties agree to become a DINK couple, sterilization is the best contraceptive method. The sterilization will not affect the level of sex hormones in the body. It only blocks the channel where sperm and eggs meet. Therefore, there is no need to worry that it will eliminate a person's secondary sexual characteristics or cause the person to enter menopause early.